Saturday, May 3, 2025

Daycares Love Big Dogs — But Small Dogs Often Get the Short End of the Stick

 


Let’s be real:

Most dog daycares are built for big dogs — and everything else is an afterthought.

From the layout to the staff ratios to the way playgroups are structured, it’s all geared toward the 50- to 100-pound crowd: Labs, Goldens, Huskies, Shepherds.

But what about the 10-pound Yorkie? The underfoot Maltese? The fragile Chiweenie with bad knees?

Here’s the dirty little secret:
Small dogs often get tossed into chaotic group play environments that aren’t safe, aren’t size-separated, and aren’t monitored with their unique needs in mind.

And worse?
Most parents never find out.


The Myth: “They All Just Get Along”

You’ll hear daycares say things like:

“We evaluate all dogs for temperament!”
“Size doesn’t matter if they have a good personality!”
“We supervise everything!”

Sure, that sounds cute. But in reality?

  • Big dogs barrel through playgroups like freight trains

  • Small dogs become moving chew toys

  • And “supervision” is often a 20-year-old with no idea what stress looks like in a 9-pound Dachshund

It’s not about “good personalities.”
It’s about physics, safety, and psychology.


The Risks You’re Not Being Told About

🦴 Physical Danger

Even unintentional contact — a hip-check, a rough paw, a zoomie crash — can injure smaller dogs. Broken ribs, sprains, and dental trauma are not uncommon.

😰 Psychological Stress

Small dogs are prey-sized. Being chased or crowded by larger dogs activates deep fear responses — even if “no one bit them.”

They might:

  • Freeze up and hide

  • Tremble uncontrollably

  • Start snapping at home

  • Lose trust in other dogs entirely

🀐 Lack of Reporting

If your small dog gets stepped on or freaks out, it’s often brushed off as “they were fine when we checked!”
Unless there’s bleeding or a serious injury, you likely won’t even get a call.


Why Do Daycares Allow Size Mixing?

πŸ’° Efficiency

It’s easier to lump 30 dogs together than manage two groups with proper ratios. More dogs = more money.

πŸ™„ Dismissiveness

Many facilities don’t take small dog stress seriously. If your pup isn’t visibly injured, staff might assume it’s “no big deal.”

πŸ‘Ž Inexperience

Most daycare employees aren’t trained in small dog body language or behavior — they don’t notice when fear or overstimulation sets in.


How to Tell If Your Small Dog’s at Risk

🚩 You’re not allowed to see the play area
🚩 They lump dogs together regardless of size
🚩 No mention of “small dog rooms” or separation during your tour
🚩 Your dog starts hiding, trembling, or resisting daycare drop-offs
🚩 Your dog comes home injured or with new aggression/fear
🚩 They use phrases like “he holds his own!” or “she loves the big guys!” (even though your gut says otherwise)


What to Ask Your Daycare (Before It’s Too Late)

  • “Do you separate small and large dogs at all times?”
    (If not, that’s a dealbreaker.)

  • “What happens if a small dog seems scared or overwhelmed?”

  • “Do you have size-based staff assignments?”
    (One handler should not be managing a Dane and a Chihuahua.)

  • “Can I see live footage or observe group play?”
    Transparency is everything.

  • “What’s your injury protocol — and how are incidents communicated to owners?”

If they hesitate, dodge, or downplay… trust your instincts.


The Truth: Small Dogs Need More, Not Less, Protection

Just because your dog isn’t limping doesn’t mean they’re not being harmed.

If your daycare can’t offer clear answers and proper size separation, it’s not the right fit — no matter how cute their Instagram is.

Because your 9-pound dog isn’t just “tough.”
They’re trusting you to protect them from things they can’t understand — like why that 75-pound doodle won’t stop chasing them.


Final Word: Advocate Loudly. Small Dogs Have Big Feelings.

The dog daycare industry isn’t regulated.
No one’s checking whether your small dog is safe, happy, or even noticed.

That’s your job — and you shouldn’t feel bad about being “that owner.”

So ask the hard questions. Show up unannounced. Speak up if something feels off.

Because at the end of the day, your little dog’s safety shouldn’t be an afterthought.

It should be the first priority.

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